You don’t have to look far to find information about mindset. Topics connected to this subject can range from growth and fixed mindset, to scarcity and abundance mindset. Because it seemed that I was constantly being bombarded with the term, I started to think that these repeated occurrences were not by happenstance, but by design. So, I decided to take a deeper dive into the word.
Mindset is defined as a set of beliefs or a way of thinking that determines one’s behavior, outlook, and mental attitude. After looking at the composition of the word, I also believe that mindset is literally where you set your mind. Thinking about it this way, the location where your mind finally lands, or sets itself, really matters. Why? Because of the domino effect – thoughts impact words, which become behaviors, which become habits. Gandhi took it further by stating that habits become values which eventually translate into destiny.
My word for 2017 is “incredible.” I use it to create an expectation about each day, and it speaks to the experiences that I want to manifest, as well as those that I want to create in the lives of others. In order for me to experience “incredible,” I have to adjust my mindset. It’s a conscious decision that requires effort throughout my day. As a result, I’m learning to let go of things that are not within my control.
Regardless of the circumstances, I strive to maintain a positive disposition. For example, I let it go when that driver jumps into the parking space I’ve been waiting for with my turn signal on. I keep it moving after the person who agreed to help me pulls out at the last minute without warning or explanation. Trust me. It’s not always easy, but doable. (By the way, it helps to do a lot of deep breathing. Woosaa!)
The bottom line is that mindset is all about the ongoing, individual choices that we make. What I’ve discovered in the process of minding my mindset, is that there is now more room for priceless things like joy. I reap benefits when I monitor where my mind lands. My joy is precious. I’ve been through too many things and worked too hard to allow negative comments to steal my joy.
After beginning treatment for cancer a few years ago, I decided to make a change and live life with an exclamation point – not a period, comma, or question mark. I cannot and will not allow the questions that others have about me and my gifts, talents, skills, or abilities, to become questions I now have about myself. I cannot and will not allow someone else to insert a pause or a period in my life story, when I know that there are so many more chapters and books to be written.
Change isn’t easy, but it’s necessary for growth and development. Take the time to self reflect and answer the following questions. What is your mindset? Where are the places that YOU let your mind land? (You certainly don’t want one of those locations to be a landmine.) Today, I encourage you to be intentional about the locations you choose. As you move from thoughts to destiny, remember, where you set your mind really does matter.